How to Grow Herbs You’ll Actually Use

No more mystery plants taking up garden space—these herbs are the real MVPs of your kitchen and teacup!

Let’s be honest: we’ve all planted something that seemed like a great idea at the time—only to forget what it was or why we planted it. The secret to a thriving herb garden isn’t growing every herb under the sun. It’s growing the ones you’ll actually use—often, and with joy!

So let’s dig into the most useful culinary and tea herbs you can grow, how to care for them, and how to make them the stars of your daily routine.

SIDE NOTE - I am playing with emojis - let me know if they help in reading the posts or interfere.

🌿 Culinary Herbs You’ll Use Again and Again

Basil (Ocimum basilicum)

Best for: Pesto, pasta, caprese salad, tomato anything.
Growing tip: Loves heat and hates cold. Plant after danger of frost and harvest frequently to keep it bushy. Great container plant – use a rich potting soil mix.

💡Quick use: Blend with olive oil and freeze in ice cube trays for instant pasta pizzazz.

Parsley (Petroselinum crispum)

Best for: Garnishing everything, soups, tabbouleh, chimichurri.
Growing tip: Flat-leaf is easier to chop, curly adds texture. Parsley is a biennial, but treat it as an annual and harvest to the ground in fall and remove the root. One plant or two is all you will need for a household. Plant in full sun where the soil drains well.

💡Quick use: Chop and toss over roasted veggies or mix into butter for a fast herb spread.

Chives (Allium schoenoprasum)

Best for: Eggs, baked potatoes, creamy dips.
Growing tip: Perennial and tough as nails. Cut back always at the bottom of the stem to keep fresh
growth coming. Can grow in pots and will winter over there, or grow in the ground.  Harvest the flowers in spring to make vinegar and cut down on spreading.

💡Quick use: Snip onto scrambled eggs or stir into sour cream with a pinch of salt.

Thyme (Thymus vulgaris)

Best for: Roasts, stews, soups, veggies, bread.
Growing tip: Prefers dry feet—plant in well-drained soil and don’t overwater. Needs full sun. Choose English, French or German for the best cooking flavors. The low growing varieties like creeping red or orange spice are great as a cascade in a container.

💡Quick use: Sprinkle fresh sprigs on roasted chicken or infuse in olive oil.

thyme in the walkway

Oregano (Origanum vulgare)

Best for: Pizza, pasta, Greek and Italian dishes.
Growing tip: Can spread like crazy—great for containers, but can freeze overwinter and may not return.  If you want to grow the same plant next year, place it in the ground and harvest frequently. Check the flavor when you buy, if there is no flavor now, it will not develop any later.  Choose Greek for best cooking.  The flavor of oregano is stronger when dried.

💡Quick use: Mix into tomato sauce or dry and blend with garlic and sea salt for a quick seasoning.

🍵 Herbs That Make Tea Time Magical

Mint (Mentha spp.)

Best for: Iced tea, mojitos, digestive blends.

Growing tip: Plant in containers unless you want mint to take over your yard (and your neighbor’s). Give it full sun and water when dry.  Harvest often to get a bushy plant and shelter for overwintering.

💡Quick use: Toss a few leaves in hot water for an instant fresh tea or muddle into lemonade.

Lemon Balm (Melissa officinalis)

Best for: Calming evening teas, lemony tea blends.
Growing tip: Easy to grow and self-seeds freely. Cut back to keep it tidy and lush. Cut to the ground when you see flowers in late June or July and it will reward you with less spreading and lovely bright leaves for harvesting in just a couple weeks. Dies back to the ground in winter to start new the following growing season.

💡Quick use: Steep with mint for a bright and relaxing afternoon tea.

Chamomile (Matricaria chamomilla)

Best for: Soothing bedtime teas, herbal blends.

Growing tip: Loves sun and well-drained soil, not very picky about soil quality (AKA will grow anywhere.) Plant seed every few weeks for a constant crop through the season so you can harvest flowers frequently.  Dry on screens or use fresh for tea and relaxing baths.

💡Quick use: Dry the blossoms and mix with lemon balm for a gentle sleep aid.

Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia)

Best for: Floral tea blends, baking, bath soaks.
Growing tip: Needs full sun and good drainage. Don’t overwater in a container, but grows best in the ground where water does not pool, especially in winter.  Mulch at the end of the season to protect the crown and do not give up too early in spring. It can be slow to revive if the spring is wet or chilly.

💡Quick use: Add a pinch to black tea or honey for a relaxing twist.

Lavender 'Grosso'

Fennel (Foeniculum vulgare)

Best for: Digestive teas, licorice-flavored blends.
Growing tip: Grows tall! Needs space and full sun. Caterpillars love it. Harvest to get fronds but let some flower so you get fennel seed. Collect seeds using a paper bag for later use. Grow fron seed to get summer harvests.

💡Quick use: Steep crushed seeds with mint after meals to soothe digestion.

🌱 Herb Garden Starter Tips

• Start small. Choose 3–5 herbs you already use in cooking or tea.
• Use containers if space is limited—or to corral runaway herbs like mint and lemon balm.
• Harvest often to keep plants productive and prevent flowering (especially basil and mint).
• Label your plants. Trust me, parsley and cilantro look nearly identical when young. And anything in the mint family will look the same when mature.

🍴 Bonus: Mix & Match Pairings

Try growing herbs in themed combos:

• Italian Garden: Basil, oregano, parsley, thyme
• Tea Lover’s Mix: Mint, lemon balm, chamomile, lavender
• Allium Corner: Chives, garlic chives, bunching onions

With just a few well-chosen herbs, your garden (and kitchen) can transform. No more guilt over neglected plants—only delicious, fragrant, fresh-from-the-garden flavor in your meals and mugs. Now that’s an herb garden worth growing!

Fennel and Rosemary Healing Tea - Tea of the Month

This tea is created to help heal any ailments you may have in the waining days of winter.

Fennel has many medicinal properties, including anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, and antioxidant properties.  There are some immunity boosting properties and germ fighting qualities. It's also a good source of potassium and vitamin C. As an anti-inflammatory is can help relax the colon and decrease respiratory tract secretions

Rosemary is long know for its cognitive and memory enhancing qualities, making it perfect for wintertime brain fog. Like many other herbs it also has polyphenols and flavonoids, which help reduce inflammation.  Rosemary also has digestive health attributes, assisting with digestion, cramps, bloating, as well as antibacterial properties to help us through cold and flu season.

Fennel and Rosemary Healing Tea

1 ½ cups water

½ tsp fennel seed, crushed

1 teaspoon dried rosemary leaves

Bring water to a boil, and add fennel seed and simmer for 10 min.  Strain fennel water over the rosemary leaves in a heat-safe mug and step 5 minutes. Strain and sweeten with honey.  Sip slowly while warm.

Fennel and Rosemary Tea - Herb Tea of the Month

This is a curative blend that should be taken in moderation and avoided if you are pregnant or nursing and if you are prone to epileptic seizures.

Fennel and Rosemary Tea

• 1 ½ cups water
• ½ tsp fennel seed, crushed
• 1 teaspoon dried rosemary leaves

Boil water add fennel seed and simmer for 10 min.  Pour fennel water over the rosemary leaves and step 5 minutes strain and sweeten with honey.  Sip slowly while warm.

Have a cup of this tea a day for a week after your main meal, then give it a 7 day rest before taking it again.  You don’t want to overdo it with these herbs.

Rosemary is rich in calcium, phosphorus, magnesium, and sodium. The scent of rosemary is said to improve memory and drinking it can assist with digestion as well as thin blood and control blood pressure levels. 

Fennel is a source of malic acid which improves digestive function and potassium which helps it lower blood pressure. It also has a calming action which alleviates stress and anxiety, improving sleep quality. 

And finally both herbs can help with cold symptoms, sore throat and headaches.

8 Herbs That Symbolize Love and Romance

Herbs and other plants have a centuries-long history of symbolizing love and devotion. In ancient Athens, people wove mint and marigolds into bridal garlands and wreaths, and in classical Rome, brides carried wheat for fertility and rosemary to ensure the groom's fertility. In medieval times, European brides carried pungent herbs such as garlic and chives to keep spirits from disrupting their happiness. The pinnacle of romantic use of herbs may have come during Victorian times, when roses, lavender, pansies, and marjoram were carefully combined with one another and with other herbs to create formulas for romantic success and contentment.

Here are eight modern herbs you can use to communicate your love and romantic intentions.

Purple Basil

Basil -- Basil became a symbol of love in Italy. In the folklore of Moldavia, a young man who accepts basil from a young woman is destined to fall in love with her.

Calendula 

Calendula -- Early Christians often brought these flowers to adorn statues of the Virgin Mary, which may be the origin of its use in love charms. According to the modern language of herbs, calendula means "joy." What a lovely thing to say to your beloved. You can add calendula to your teas, but even more romantic, add it to your romantic bath by candlelight. For young valentines, a sweet calendula-flavored soap is a gentle and loving gesture.

Thyme -- Thyme has a long history during which it has symbolized many things. According to the modern language of herbs, thyme brings with it the meaning of affection, which is perfect for either young love or deep friendship. What better way to express your devotion to someone than to include a sprig of thyme in a bouquet.

patchouli

Patchouli -- The heady scent of patchouli is not surprisingly included in a list of romance herbs. According to the modern language of herbs, patchouli means "passion." To use patchouli to its fullest extent, tuck some dried patchouli into small sleep pillows or sachet. The rich, lusty scent can entice your love to feel romantic.

Yarrow -- In the modern language of herbs, yarrow means "everlasting love." Yarrow has a naturally spicy flavor, so use a light hand, and include it in your teas or baths.

                

               Lavender -- In the modern language of love,                                     Lavender means "devotion and undying love." It is                           no surprise that lavender has always been                                           considered a herb of love since its delicious and                                 romantic scent is adored by almost everyone. An                               increasingly popular modern tradition is to use 

               dried lavender petals as wedding confetti.

Oregano -- Although we think of oregano primarily as a cooking herb, the ancient Greeks believed that it was the herb of Aphrodite, goddess of love, who is said to have created it as the herb of joy for her garden.

Fennel -- With its soft, feathery, delicate growth habit, fennel seems perfect for a list of modern love herbs. In the language of herbs, this sweet, heady-scented herb means "flattery." Include its tall, shimmery fronds, in a bouquet of herbs and flowers to present to your loved one. Add fennel to your Valentine's Day meal, sprinkle it on your salad, or dessert dishes.

Monthly Tea Ideas for June - sleep and digestion

If there’s one good thing you can do for yourself in a day, it’s taking five minutes out to make a cup tea and have a moment of calm. Herbal tea remedies can provide amazing healing properties when the right herbs are combined together. Even the act of making a cup of tea is a mindful process in itself!

The purest way to reap these benefits is to make your own herbal teas at home - which is way easier than it sounds. If you do not have these herbs, then try some of our Backyard Patch tea blends.

What you need:

• A tea pot
• A glass jar to keep your mixture in
• Tea strainer or unbleached empty tea bags
• dried herbs, preferably organic

Tea to aid sleep

• 3 parts dried chamomile flowers - these have a calming element and natural sedative properties.
• 3 parts dried lavender flowers - these have a calming scent that is soothing and promotes relaxation.
• 1 part dried passionflower - soothes the mind, calming brain activity, also a natural sedative
• 1/2 part dried valerian root - this helps calm the nerves and promote a peaceful sleep, it also has natural sedative properties.

Measure out your herbs in a bowl. Mix herbs together, then transfer to jar. 3. If making in a pot scoop 2 tablespoons of mix into teapot and pour over boiled water, set aside and let steep for 5-10mins, then strain through into cup, sit back and enjoy.

For a tea bag cut your ingredients down to 1 Tbls and add the measured ingredients to a tea bag, place in cup and pour over boiled water, allowing to steep for 5 minutes before drinking.

Tea to aid digestion

This tea has a serious licorice flavor, but with the addition of ginger, you cut the sweetness and up the healthy benefits for an upset stomach.

• 3 parts dried fennel seed - aids digestion by helping to increase the production of gastric juices to get digestion started properly.
• 2 parts licorice root - helps the liver neutralize toxins and is anti-inflammatory
• fresh ginger root, sliced - this is highly anti-inflammatory, helps in digestion and reduces gas; easing bloating and burping. Keep ginger separate and add in fresh slice ginger when making tea pot

Measure out your dry herbs into a bowl. Mix together, then transfer to jar (except fresh ginger, slice this fresh as it provides more flavor.) 

If making in a pot scoop two tablespoons of mix into teapot, add two coins of ginger root to the pot and pour over boiled water, set aside and let steep for 5-10mins, then strain through into cup, sit back and enjoy.

For a tea bag use a single coin of ginger root with 1 teaspoon of herbs in a tea bag. Place in cup and pour over boiled water, allowing to steep for 5 minutes before drinking. 

Slow Cooker Ragu - Weekend Recipe

I love this recipe because it uses fennel to make a sweeter sauce.  You can set it and forget it in your crockpot or make it in your insta pot.  Leave out the pasta and just make the sauce if you want to use other pasta, but you need to drain the tomatoes if you do not add pasta.

Slow Cooker Ragu

• 1 pound 93% lean ground beef
• 2 14.5-ounce cans diced tomatoes, undrained
• 2 cups thinly sliced fennel
• 2 cups reduced-sodium chicken broth
• 1 15-ounce can tomato sauce
• ⅓ cup chopped onion
• 4 cloves garlic, minced
• 1 ½ teaspoons fennel seeds, lightly crushed
• 1 teaspoon dried oregano, crushed 
• 1/2 teaspoon black pepper 
• ribbon cut fresh basil (about 1 Tablespoon packed)
• 1 12-ounce pkg. no-boil, no-drain penne pasta, such as Barilla Pronto 
• ½ cup snipped fresh basil for garnish

Directions:

Break ground beef into bite-size pieces and place in a 6-qt. slow cooker. Add remaining ingredients except pasta and fresh snipped basil garnish. Cover and cook on low 7 to 9 hours or high 3 1/2 to 4 1/2 hours.

If using low, turn to high. Stir in pasta. Cover and cook 20 minutes more or just until pasta is tender, stirring after 10 minutes. Stir in basil.

Pressure Cooker / Instapot Instructions:

Break ground beef into bite-size pieces and place in a 6-qt. multifunction electric or stove-top pressure cooker. Add next 11 ingredients (except pasta and fresh basil.) Stir to combine. Lock lid in place. Set electric cooker on high pressure to cook 2 minutes. For stove-top cooker, bring up to pressure over medium-high heat; reduce heat enough to maintain steady (but not excessive) pressure. Cook 2 minutes. Remove from heat. For both models, let stand 5 minutes to release pressure naturally. Release any remaining pressure. Open lid carefully. If desired, let stand, covered, up to 10 minutes for pasta to reach desired doneness. Stir in basil.

RECIPE THEME

Each month a theme is chosen and a number of recipes on that theme from my massive archive will be shared.  This year we have 12 new topics, different from the topics of last year.  

To find the recipes of last year, check out this recipe link or search the blog with the topic Recipe2018, Recipe2019, or Recipe2020.

 
You can search the monthly theme by looking for the theme keyword in the search box and it will pull up the recipes on that theme as posted, so look at the bottom of the recipe in each posting for the KEYWORD for each month.  All recipes this year will be tagged Recipe2021 so you can find them all.

The themes are:
Jan 2021 – Baked Items
Feb 2021 – Breakfast Dishes
March 2021 – Italian Dishes
April 2021 - Chicken Recipes
May 2021 - Appetizers
June 2021 – Mediterranean Dishes
July 2021 – Pork Recipes
August 2021 - Seafood
September 2021 - Pizzas
October 2021 – Mexican Dishes
November 2021 - Cookies
December 2021 – Gift Recipes

Unusual Pizza Weekend Recipe - Pork and Cabbage with Fennel Pizza

One last unusual pizza to cap the month.  This one with the tastes of fennel and celery seed bring a tasty earthy flavor to lean pork, which is perfectly balanced with cabbage and fresh sage.

Pork and Cabbage with Fennel Pizza  

Makes one 15-inch pizza

1 (12- to 14-ounce) prepared pizza dough
3 tablespoons olive oil, divided
3 tablespoons toasted wheat germ
2 teaspoons fennel seed, divided
1 teaspoon celery seed, divided
1/4 teaspoon salt
8 ounces lean pork (such as top loin), cut into strips or bite-sized pieces
4 cups sliced green cabbage
2 to 3 garlic cloves, minced
1/2 teaspoon sugar
1/2 tablespoon balsamic vinegar
1 cup shredded mozzarella cheese
1/2 cup shredded gruyére cheese
2 tablespoons chopped fresh sage

Directions:

Preheat oven to 450 degrees. Roll out dough to fit a large nonstick baking pan or pizza screen. Baste crust with 1 1/2 tablespoons olive oil; set aside.

Combine wheat germ, 1 teaspoon fennel seed, 1/2 teaspoon celery seed and salt in a large plastic bag; shake until combined. Add pork cubes or strips and shake to coat with the herb mixture. Heat 1 tablespoon olive oil in a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Reduce heat to medium, add pork and cook, turning often, about 7 to 9 minutes. Remove pork from skillet and set aside.

Using same skillet, heat remaining 1/2 tablespoon olive oil over medium heat. Add cabbage, garlic and sugar along with remaining 1 teaspoon fennel seed and 1/2 teaspoon celery seed. Cook 2 to 4 minutes or until cabbage is slightly wilted. Add balsamic vinegar and cook 1 minute more; set aside.

Sprinkle both cheeses evenly over pizza crust. Arrange herb-crusted pork and cabbage mixture over crust, spreading to the edges. Top with fresh sage. Bake 12 to 15 minutes or until crust is lightly golden and cheese is bubbly. 

RECIPE THEME

Each month a theme is chosen and a number of recipes on that theme from my massive archive will be shared.  This year we have 12 new topics, different from the topics of last year.  To find the recipes of last year, check out this recipe link or search the blog with the topic Recipe2018, or Recipe2019 

You can search the monthly theme by looking for the theme keyword in the search box and it will pull up the recipes on that theme as posted, so look at the bottom of the recipe in each posting for the KEYWORD in the () to search for each  month.  All recipes this year will be tagged Recipe2020 so you can find them all.

The themes are:

Feb 2020 - Footbal Tailgate Favorites (AppFeb)

March 2020 - Kabobs (KabobMar)

April 2020 - Brunch (BrunchApr) more in 2021 also

May 2020 - Non-Traditional Pizza (PizzaMay)

June 2020 - StirFry Dishes (StirJun)

July 2020 - Salads with no lettuce (SaladJul)

August 2020 - Pickled things (PickleAug)

September 2020 - Quiche (QuicheSep)

October 2020 - Squash Soups (SquashOct)

November 2020 - Pumpkin (again) (PumpNov)

December 2020 - Turkey Recipes (TurkDec)

Green Bean Seafood Stew - April Recipe Series

Seafood stews are generally not long cooking and are an easy way to make dinner when time is short.  This recipe called for saffron which is a rare herb that costs quite a bit, but you only need a couple threads if you can find them in your local cooking specialty store.

Green Bean Seafood Stew

2 teaspoons extra-virgin olive oil

1 medium onion, chopped

1 clove garlic, minced

1/2 teaspoon dried thyme

1/2 teaspoon fennel seed

1/4 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon freshly ground pepper

Pinch of crumbled saffron threads

1 cup diced tomatoes, with juice

1/4 cup vegetable broth

4 ounces green beans, cut into 1-inch pieces

4 ounces bay scallops, tough muscle removed

4 ounces small shrimp, (41-50 per pound), peeled and deveined

Directions

Heat oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add onion; cook, stirring constantly, for 3 minutes. Add garlic, thyme, fennel seed, salt, pepper and saffron; cook for 20 seconds.

Stir in tomatoes, broth and green beans. Bring to a simmer. Cover, reduce heat and simmer for 2 minutes.

Increase heat to medium, stir in scallops and cook, stirring occasionally, for 2 minutes. Add shrimp and cook, stirring occasionally, for 2 minutes more. 2 servings, 1 3/4 cups each.

RECIPE THEME:

Each month a theme is chosen and a number of recipes on that theme from my massive archive will be shared.  This year we have 12 new topics, different from the topics of last year.  To find the recipes of last year, check out this recipe link or search the blog with the topic Recipe2018. 

You can search the monthly theme by looking for the theme keyword in the search box and it will pull up the recipes on that theme as posted, so look at the bottom of the recipe in each posting for the KEYWORD in the () to search for each  month.  All recipes this year will be tagged Recipe2019 so you can find them all.

The themes are:

Jan 2019 – Chicken and Dumplings (CDumpsJan)

Feb 2019 - Pasta Dishes (PastaFeb)

March 2019 - Edible Flowers (FlowerMar)

April 2019 - Seafood Recipes (SeafoodApr)

May 2019 - Cajun And Creole

June 2019 - Vegetarian Dishes

July 2019 - Zucchini Recipes

August 2019 - National Mustard Day – mustard recipes

September 2019 - Quiche

October 2019 - Crock Pot meals

November 2019 - Pies

December 2019 - Mocktails